There is much
to be admired in all of my seven sons and three
daughters but I think James George is at the top of the
list.
After being
married for three months, my husband George and I were
expecting our first child. Our apartment was in
Waltham,
Massachusetts&
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We both loved children and couldn’t
wait for James George to be born. I knew he was going
to be a boy as the whole time I carried him George
called him by name.
I am proud to say that Jim is my son and
he is someone I love and admire very, very much.
He was such a good baby, that my mom
volunteered to take care of him while I worked part
time at a small restaurant that I could walk to only
two blocks away from our
apartment.
It was an unforgettable day that I
stopped to pick Jimmy up at my mom’s. She said
“Jimmy has been fussing ever since you left. He’s
been rubbing his eyes as if they are painfulâ€. She
knew that this was very unusual and knew I would think
so too.
We lived down the Lane from my mom and by
the time I got home and laid Jimmy on his changing
table, his right eye had no color at all, it was
completely white. I immediately called our family
doctor and he quickly said, “Take him into The Boston
Eye and Ear in
Boston
immediatelyâ€!!!
We didn’t have a car at the time so I
called my brother in law Leo, (my sister Judy’s
husband) and he was at the house within five minutes to
pick up George and me. I was shaking. What in the world
was happening to our precious little baby
boy.
Jimmy was whisked away as soon as we
arrived at the hospital. We were worried, scared. out
of our minds.
Finally the surgeon came and told us
Jimmy needed to have an emergency operation on both of
his eyes and they couldn’t promise us that he
wouldn’t be blind.
Jimmy had
Glaucoma. At nineteen years old, I had never heard of
it or any other eye diseases. I found out later that
the disease is silent and effects both young and old.
There is fluid in our eyes that enters one side and
goes out the other. If it doesn’t flow the fluid
builds up pressure in the eye which if not taken care
of can and will cause blindness. Jimmy was Blessed by
having the best doctors perform the surgery. They saved
his left eye but said the right one was completely
hopeless.
We were totally confused and heartbroken.
The doctor told us to go home and come back tomorrow as
we couldn’t visit him anyway.
George and
I cried on the way home and through the
night.
During the next five years our brave
little boy suffered through nine more surgeries on his
right eye with the doctors trying to bring the pressure
down. The nurses loved him and couldn’t tell us
enough about the good baby he was. Many times we would
not let him see us when we went to visit as we didn’t
want to upset him, and we’d peek at him around the
corner with his baby arms tied to both sides of the
crib so he couldn’t disturb the bandages. That was so
upsetting to us!
In between these trips he was required to
go to the clinic once a week for tests during which he
was put under ether. He wasn’t able to have a bottle
or eat from midnight the night before. When he was an
infant I would walk the floors of the clinic with my
tears mixing with my baby’s.
He was so
hungry and unable to eat until we were on the way
home.
That
wasn’t all this little boy had to endure. Twice a day
I had to massage his right eye with my two index
fingers. Who do you think cried hardest?
George and I were so grateful to a lady
who worked for the Red Cross who was the one that drove
us to the hospital once a week for Jimmy’s
treatments. It was either she or a taxi we had to
depend on for
transportation.
Jimmy was
five years of age the doctor suggested that he prepare
for the last surgery and remove Jimmy’s right eye. He
said it would make him a lot more comfortable with a
prosthesis. We agreed of course, anything to help our
precious baby.
It wasn’t always comfortable either as
twice a day I had to remove the prosthesis and flush
out the little socket to prevent
infections.
At this
writing, Jimmy is sixty years old and now I will tell
you why he is the one I chose to be the one most
admired.
This is
what he has accomplished while not having peripheral
vision.
He played on the Farm league baseball
team at seven years old and played ball all through
high school.
He was on the high school wrestling
team.
He’s a great tennis player and
golfer.
He’s a wonderful singer and
entertainer.
He is a member of The Mudville Senior
Baseball Team.
Here’s the
real stuff!!!!
He is a Shihan (means
Master).
He is a 7th Degree
Black belt in Okinawan Gojurya
Karate
A 4th Degree Black Belt Yoshitsune
Jujitsu.
A 3rd Degree Black
Belt Hakkoryu Jujitsu
He is a member of the Martial Hall of
Fame and Master Instructor for the year
2000.
Jimmy has owned his own successful
Martial Arts Academy business for many years.
He is
admired and respected by the parents of all his
students for what he does to help them gain self
confidence and respect for themselves. He especially
loves his work with the youth and has never considered
himself handicapped.
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Jimmy and his wife Claire who have been
married for more than twenty five years live in
Holliston
Mass. and have two daughters. Aimee is a high
school teacher and Kelly is in her second year of
nursing.